not holier than thou

yesterday was the sports day. its was quite ok. i didnt have to do much duty as i have the 'lesen' to sit down and slack being pregnant and all. hey, must milk all its worth ok? (last yr my duty was in charge of the competitors. kerja tunggang terbalik.)

anyhow, i must say that i am completely UNHAPPY that yellow house won the cheerleading competition. green house should outrightly win. green house had a mascot, they did their splits, cheered, human pyramid-structure, etc, etc.

and yellow's house routine was so MELUAT. if i want to see a bunch of underage MINAHS gyrating to hiphop-raggaethon music in tight tops and skimpy skirts, i would gladly go to double O on thursday night.

on this, i must blame the STUPID judges who made the decision. its not yellow house's fault that they pranced and danced like hoes. its in their genetic make-up. but the STUPID judges (who comprises a team of DODOS and i shall not name them here) probably havent got a clue what cheerleading is all about.

BANGANG.

i am very disgusted still by yellow's dance routine. two of my old form-class students danced like they are seasoned bar-top dancers. i am very mortified. and i know for a fact that their parents are ALIM to the max kind of people. i still remember one of the girl's parents called me up, two years back telling me that her daughter is NOT allowed to go to overnight camps as its MAKSIAT. the girl's mother didnt like the fact that 'perempuan dan lelaki campur-campur. its haram,' she said.

i have relatives who are like that. holier than thou attitude. think the world of their daughters, think they are great parents and everyone else's daughters are jahat. goes around telling people's children off. chastisising and preaching.

the writer and her mum always tell me, 'these kind of people shouldnt speak too soon. their daughters will grow up too. how certain are you that your daughters will turn out well and better than other people's kids?'

13 and 16 years old girls gyrating like they are on mtv. infront of the entire school population.

i better not speak too soon. neither am i trying to be holier than thou (God knows for I have sinned and still sinning.) but this serves as a pelajaran dan pengajaran for us. especially for those who are and will be raising children soon.