this thursday is my monthly appt with the gynae. there'll be no school due to the polling day holiday, the gahmen owns us, so i will be making my way to the hospy with my brother, who coincidentally has his monthly appt with his kidney specialist at the same hospy, at the same time.
freaky deaky.
anyhow, this thursday i will be EIGHT months pregnant. thats about 50 days away to full-term.
anyhow, back to my freaky deaky brother who has the same appt day and time with me, he finally has a gf.
yes. his first gf. he's all happy and smiley and spending tonnes of time outside with her. i am quite relief that (a) he's not gay and (b) its abt damn time.. he's 24 this year for goodness sake!
however, being a fussy-elder-sister that i am who thinks that no girl is good enough for her baby brother, i think.. erm.. how do i say this without sounding like a biatch.. he can definitely do better.
i know, i know.. i sound horrible! but i do have my reasons, ok. one BIG reason why i think he can do better is, his new gf is what you would term as 'buy-one-get-one-free'.
she's a young divorcee with a 6 years old daughter. and she's younger than my brother. and if my brother ends up with her, he will have a kid who is OLDER than my first born. how freaky deaky is that? i cannot imagine my brother having a child calling him Bapak.
MY brother is like a child himself! i still buy his clothes (and boxers too!) for him! and whenever he falls ill due to his kidney condition, my mother still SUAP him makan (using hands) on his bed! how on earth is he going to support or take care of TWO new people in his life?
i dont mean to pry or be kepo but i need to ask him if he's really serious. if not, he should take the first flight out island-of-instant-family.
i have a reason to be concerned, right?
oh why do you have to grow up so fast?
2 comments:
babe, i *SO* know what you're talking about. I have a baby brother and I am uber protective and fussy about the girls he goes out with. sometimes, i don't know what he's thinking choosing the girls he chose. i *always* know he can do better and he deserves someone better.
but your brother's issue is kinda touchy. better approach with care.
vu my brother's 25 and i don't think he ever had a girlfriend!!! so i am still having the same concern(especially point a.!)hehe.
and about your brother's situation,i don't think you're being kepo lah,u prolly have to tell him your point of view and leave him to think abt it.
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